Recently, we've been listening to the band Pentatonix and watching their music videos. One of our favorites is the Wizard of Ahhhs. Lincoln was immediately dazzled by Todrick Hall's performance as the Wizard, and asked if I could get him a costume "just like that!" Oh boy. Take a look at this:
Ok, yes, I let my 2 year olds and my 5 year old watch this stuff. I am a sucker for singing and dancing, and these people are so incredibly talented. Lincoln was curious why all the women looked the same, and I explained that Kirstie Maldonado plays all the characters. She gets to dress up all those different times, and no, she doesn't actually die as the Wicked Witch. I could see the wheels turning in his head, as he realized what being an actor entails. Costumes?! Singing?! Dancing?! And the Wizard stole the show in Lincoln's opinion. Todrick wears an awesome getup, but more elaborate and flashy than the projects I'm used to sewing. I said if he still wanted a similar costume by next Halloween, we'd put something together.
Once Lincoln gets something into his head, he keeps bringing it up over and over again. But, I have recently realized that his determination isn't something I need to quell or tone down. In fact, his devotion to his passions will serve him well in life, and sometimes I need to set aside my low-key "maybe, eventually" attitude and jump right in, matching his "yes!" for life. But, it's not like I can drop everything in the middle of the week, leaving the twins to fend for themselves, and go hide away in the sewing room for hours.
So, here's what I did. After mapping it out in my head a little bit, I invited him to search my fabric stash with me to see what we have to work with. We have little extra cash right now, so I did my best to be thrifty. Luckily, we had some shiny green scraps leftover from a cape. There was also an ill-fitting black turtleneck that I had thrown in my sewing pile, perfect for cutting a sleeve off. We spent a Wednesday evening at a couple thrift stores, finding some black and white converse and a vest that I could use to sew the green fabric to. He got impatient a couple times while I searched the entire clothing section for useful gems, but instead of getting frustrated, I calmly reminded him that this was his project. I would gladly stop looking and go home if he was ready to quit. "No, no, lets keep going!" Letting his interests take the lead really works!
It was very hard for him to understand that we weren't going to sew it all together as soon as we got home. It was dinner and bath time, and then preschool in the morning, etc., so after checking with Tyler, I told Lincoln that we would devote Saturday to his costume project. One way or another, we'd end that day with a finished product. Even though he had to wait several days, it helped him to know it was firmly scheduled. He left school Friday afternoon announcing to everyone, "Tomorrow is Wizard day!"
Saturday morning we dove right in, and we did spend the full 4 hours I had planned. Lincoln helped pin, measure, and guide the fabric into the sewing machine. I can't imagine, if I had wanted to teach Lincoln to sew, and devised some lesson plans, that he would ever focus for such a length of time. Self-motivation is by far the best teacher, and how cool that his is built in!
If sewing for hours with a 5 year old is hard work, then I was amply rewarded with a front row seat to the countless performances that followed. Lincoln had absolutely no input or direction from anyone but himself, and he had a blast watching himself dance! Here are a couple of my favorites: watch either one!
I love Lincoln's joy of performing, and how comfortable he is being himself wherever he goes.
During the Costco trip pictured above, I noticed a really cool leather bound copy of the Wizard of Oz, and asked my own little wizard if he wanted me to read it to him. We're 5 chapters in already, and I'm so excited that he is old enough to enjoy chapter books at bed time. Oh, the adventures we have ahead of us!
The planning and execution of this little project went beautifully, and Lincoln was so ecstatic with the results that he wants to start another costume. Tyler and I told him once a month. Next month, he wants to be Buzz Lightyear. After that, the Onceler from the Lorax. We'll see how many times he changes his mind between now and then!